Should We Become Bystanders?

     Have you ever seen some people who struggle for surviving all day? The majority of those people are destitute patients. The rate of medical assistant cases constantly increases every year in the United States rapidly. According to estimates of Center for Disease Control and Prevention, over one million people don’t have enough money to afford the expensive medical cost and most of them die by diseases. Although legislations of the United States don’t require us to help them in any kinds of financial support coercively, we should donate money in charity organization in order to help other people who in need actually. Being a bystander is simple because he/she doesn’t have to do anything.  The majority of bystanders will ignore what events occur around them even they involve in a series of cases. If everyone becomes bystanders, we won’t perceive any kinds of love expressions in our society such as compassion. People don’t want to help each other anymore, they may be selfish and self-centered. Therefore, we have a responsibility to help each other who needs emergency assistance. Helping people to overcome their obstacles what they face is a kind of pleasure. It also is a way to improve your social networks and get useful experiences from them. If we are no longer to be bystanders, we will have a steady and secure community. We are a part of members of human beings, and we have the responsibility to help others who need emergent help in order to develop a secure and peaceful society. 

      Everyone has responsibility to help others who need emergent financial or safety requirement without any rewards. It is a kind of moral behavior in order to make our community more peacefully and securely. There are two types of responsibility that individuals should help others who need help in economic and secure crisis. First of all, people can donate money and clothes to charity organization for helping other people who in need, especially homeless people. In recent years, homelessness has become a serious problem that might cause various negative effects such as crime and violence. Homeless people lose confidence to seek appropriate occupation constantly because majority of employers don’t hire them. It is the primary factor of the rate of crime increasing rapidly every year. For instance, a part of homeless people are addicted to drug. They may attempt to rob the valuables from others. Even worse, they rob the banks and murder any innocent bystanders. Providing financial support and used clothes to them might not help them in long-term way, but it is effective for reducing the rate of crime temporally. Another responsibility is that people should help others who are in emergency situations. We can’t run away when we see someone who is suffering. A famous Chinese proverb states: “To help others is the source of happiness.” In general, we should try hard to help others to solve their obstacles. Nobody concerns about what feeling that someone don’t get help from others. For instance, someone gets injury by car accident and nobody helps him immediately. This person may disappoint to those bystanders in the car accident scene at that moment. If the bystander effect spread out constantly, more and more innocent victims will get hurt. We have responsibility to protect others’ lives because we have to avoid the tragedy occurs.  In addition, devoting spare time to participate the volunteer service in charity organization is an excellent directly way to help homeless people. Teaching people don’t be bystanders when they see someone who needs help. Moreover, teaching the safe procedures to people is an efficient way to prevent the tragedy. For instance, they can directly treat the victims after the tragedy has occurred. They might call emergency assistance after they really couldn’t handle and prevent the matter to be worse. 

      Most people are always being bystanders when someone needs emergency help at risky situation. However, a few people will help others promptly. For instance, once I laid down my cell phone on the seat and got off the bus, a young girl who sat next to me got off the bus and gave my cell phone back to me soon. I was surprised at that time because I never ever experienced someone got my stuff back to me. I was to be thankful for this lady. Even though many people try to help others in any risky situations, a few people are being bystanders and waiting for the other people to help. Once I saw an elder man to find a heavy backpack because the bus was crowed, nobody abdicated a seat to this senior. Finally, I was disappointed by these bystanders and abdicated my seat to him. If I didn’t help this senior, I might felt selfish and unbearable. We have the responsibility to rescue someone who is struggling at crisis. I realize that our community will be more peaceful and secure when everyone no longer becomes a bystander. 

Website/blog cited: http://www.icadvinc.org/prevention/for-bystanders/bystander-basics/
                              http://voices.yahoo.com/the-bystander-effect-why-dont-we-stop-help-290255.html

Everyone Can Achieve Success

The Path to Success

Everyone desires to achieve success of their goals, but he/she always steps back while facing the challenges. These people decide that they should have courage in preparation for accepting the failure before they make attempts. I told that failure is the key of success in my last post and I believed that the majority of people have been heard such quotes over thousand times from others. However, a few people have the courage to keep going on their journey of failure until they reach their own satisfied outcomes.

Failures can be painful, but they can also be tools to achieve success. In other words, failure can motivate people to succeed. Most people fear to fail and consider that failures as a shame on their lives, so they try to avoid failures and they do not want to take risks.  The author of a book "Zero" Paul Logan says, “Even failure, as painful as it is, doesn’t have to be an ending.”  It can be a learning experience—one that builds strength and gives direction. Unlike the people who fear to fail, the others try to fail and treat failures as tools to achieve their success. For example, athletes are never satisfied with finishing goals, and they expect higher-level. It is challenging to reach higher goals at first, but they are willing to attempt again after they fail. Even though they still do not reach their goal after constant attempts, they improve their potential to become champions for the future. In a Youtube video, Michael Jordan, a famous basketball player says, “I’ve missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I’ve lost almost 300 games. 26 times I’ve trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I’ve failed over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.” As a professional athlete said, “a winner mostly made more failures than loser did.” If people do not want to fail and take a risk, they never know how well they can do.Self-confidence is one of essential keys to turn failures into success.It is also the best treatment to solve the problem about the fear of failure.

Websites/Blogs cited:

http://www.deepimpactonline.com/blog/mindset-and-inspiration/failure-is-not-the-end-but-the-beginning

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/intent/intent-day_b_1690890.html

http://www.lifehack.org/articles/lifehack/how-fear-of-failure-destroys-success.html

Success and Failure (Revised Version)

It is the time to introduce the relationship between success and failure. What is the scale of the success? Does it mean to lead everyone to have quality lives?  Everyone wants to be successful and a winner in their lives. To define the term of success, most people think success is being rich, being high educated or being famous. Nobody wants to be fail or a loser. However, being failed does not mean as being a loser, failure can be a key of success, if we can learn from it. The numerous attempts of failure are the best teacher for someone who wants to succeed. There are various types of failures people face as they grow up. People may fail their classes in school. They may fail their interviews when they seek jobs. When they look for relationships, they may fail in confessing their love. It is hard to avoid failures in human lives because it is a process of growth that people need to go through. As a book writer Chris Brogan says, “Failure is not a bad thing because it can help you succeed.”

Most people forgot the failure that they overcame in childhood. Children usually learn from failures as soon as they failed. For example, when children start to learn bicycling, they fall down and cry first. Even though they get hurts, they get up and try again and again until they succeed. They do not learn instructions from their parent’s, but they learn from their failures by themselves. In addition, as people read about biographies of successful people, they can realize that most of them have similar parts of their lives. They failed many times before they succeed. Thomas Edison, a famous American inventor said, “If I find 10,000 ways something won’t work, I haven’t failed. I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward.” After people have a failure, they know they did not do it right or they made mistakes. They analyze the failures and step forward to succeed.

Failures and success are two words with opposite meaning, but failures can lead to success if we can learn from failure and take effort to overcome it. Also, it is inspiring for people who are aggressive to measure how succeed they can do. As I understand the key of succeed, I am not fear to fail and I will learn from failures. It is not a big deal to fail, but someone who gives up after they fail could be a loser. As a quote from the essay “Failures and Success”, “what would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?” Not all famous people who have been success are born with talents, but they did go through failures to achieve their success.

My Favorite Link 1st: http://www.netrootsfoundation.org/2012/01/failure-is-the-key-to-success/
My Favorite Link 2nd: http://www.lifeoptimizer.org/2011/04/23/failure-is-the-key-to-success/
My Favorite video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iEfBU_zXFz0
Here is my word cloud:

Success and Failure (Draft)

It is the time to introduce the relationship between success and failure. What is the scale of the success? Does it mean to lead everyone to have quality lives?  Everyone wants to be successful and a winner in their lives. To define the term of success, most people think success is being rich, being high educated or being famous. Nobody wants to be fail or a loser. However, being failed does not mean as being a loser, failure can be a key of success, if we can learn from it. The numerous attempts of failure are the best teacher for someone who wants to succeed. There are various types of failures people face as they grow up. People may fail their classes in school. They may fail their interviews when they seek jobs. When they look for relationships, they may fail in confessing their love. It is hard to avoid failures in human lives because it is a process of growth that people need to go through. As a book writer Chris Brogan says, “Failure is not a bad thing because it can help you succeed.”

Most people forgot the failure that they overcame in childhood. Children usually learn from failures as soon as they failed. For example, when children start to learn bicycling, they fall down and cry first. Even though they get hurts, they get up and try again and again until they succeed. They do not learn instructions from their parent’s, but they learn from their failures by themselves. In addition, as people read about biographies of successful people, they can realize that most of them have similar parts of their lives. They failed many times before they succeed. Thomas Edison, a famous American inventor said, “If I find 10,000 ways something won’t work, I haven’t failed. I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward.” After people have a failure, they know they did not do it right or they made mistakes. They analyze the failures and step forward to succeed.

Failures and success are two words with opposite meaning, but failures can lead to success if we can learn from failure and take effort to overcome it. Also, it is inspiring for people who are aggressive to measure how succeed they can do. As I understand the key of succeed, I am not fear to fail and I will learn from failures. It is not a big deal to fail, but someone who gives up after they fail could be a loser. As a quote from the essay “Failures and Success”, “what would you attempt to do if you knew you could not fail?” Not all famous people who have been success are born with talents, but they did go through failures to achieve their success.

My Favorite Link: http://www.netrootsfoundation.org/2012/01/failure-is-the-key-to-success/

A Question To New Post

Most of  you had been viewed my blogs about genuine education in the past couple of weeks. I also introduced the genuine definition of eduacation and the elements should genuine education include. Do you get interested in my blog? If not, how can I improve my blog and what the next blog should be in order to be satisfied with your requirement?